Bachelorette’s Devin Strader defends decision to leave Jenn Tran

Jenn explained: “I broke off the engagement over a phone call and the next day I woke up and realized you were following girls on Instagram – not just any girls, but Maria. Not only is that so disrespectful to everything we shared together, I just don’t understand it.”

And Devin admitted she was right. “I can’t excuse the Instagram follow,” Devin told Jenn during the live finale. “I know how much that hurt you. I’m not here to tell you that you can’t feel the way you feel. Obviously I let you down. I can’t say anything else. Everything I felt for you was genuine.”

But Jenn’s accusation that he went to clubs with one of her former admirers in New York City, Jeremy SimonJust hours after their separation, he was unwilling to apologize and replied, “Am I not allowed to live a life?”

But after much back and forth, Jenn finally wanted to make it clear to her former fiancé how important a strong bond is.